My sister and her husband asked me to write in their guest book, I preferred to write an advice rather than a wish. and here is my advice
1-wake up together, sleep together
2-marriage isn't only about sending love messages to each others, it's about appreciating the other partner and every action and feeling from him/her
3-have habits that you always do
4-be-mindful when your partner talk even if he/she is talking about normal things, this is a chance to more understand his feelings and the things he like, hate or wish
5-have a QUICK reaction to any action that annoy your partner and change it in yourself so he feels more your appereciation
6-Convert all things that everybody thinks they are usual to unusual things (driving kids to school, prepare food, etc) by having fun
7-The WORST thing you can do to you spouse is having a movie night (I've read an article about that, I'll send it to you later)
8-For Tamer: Every day when you come back to home make your entrance bring joy to all those at home by making fun and having a unique way every now and then
9-Read a lot(blogs, books), there are a lot of people who have much experience that you didn't have yet, this could make you avoid many problems
10-Pray Qeiam Al-Leel together
11-Don't do everything together, everyone should have time by himself only,if you don't you won't miss each others :)
12-Avoid fighting, this will slowly damage your relationship
13-Don't ever compare your relationship to any other couple, This can ruin your life; plus, you see only the good part about their life you don't know the bad part
14-care about all aspects of your life (health, mind, religion)
15-Do activities that sterngthen your relationship (read, fix something, learn something, shop)
16-care about your children and all aspects of their life, not only their grades and food, they are your product
17-remember that Tamer is your king and Rania is your Queen
18-The one who should see your love is your children not other people and not your facebook friends :)
19-You should have a list like this that you read regularly to remind yourself, as definitely life will make you forgot your life rules
20-إذا أحببت شخصاً فلا تعصي الله من أجله فقلبُ من أحببت بيدِ من عصيت
21-make your goal is to meet in Jannah, not to live together forever in Donia
